9 People Describe Their First Orgasm — oh god (1)

An orgasm can be quite a shock to the system, particularly if you didn't know your body was capable of having one. At first, orgasms can be surprising, accidental, or even scary (or a combination of those feelings). In most cases, though, orgasms are fun and leave people wanting more.

Plus, everyone has orgasms at a different point in life. Some people had an unforgettable run-in with a hot tub jet as a kid, while others had a teenage curiosity that involved stumbling upon internet porn. Many learn to orgasm through masturbation, and some go their whole sex life without orgasming at all.

Given that there's such a smattering of orgasm experiences (and the fact that there's no "right" way to figure it out), we found some real first orgasm stories from people in the R29 community and some honest Redditors. Together, these anecdotes make for quite the coming of age story, if you know what we mean.

1 OF 9 

“My first boyfriend was diddling my skittle and I was loving it.”

"I was 20. My first boyfriend was diddling my skittle and I was loving it and then all of a sudden it hit. It was quite powerful. I remember being quite loud and he started to pull away, concerned, but I got a death grip on his hand and growled "DON'T YOU STOP, DAMMIT!" He told me he thought I was possessed." — mweebles via Reddit.

 

 

 

2 OF 9

“My whole body was feeling all kind of tingles.”

"I remember freshman year of high school I finally decided to keep going all the way when I masturbated and it was the best feeling in the world. My whole body was feeling all kind of tingles, and the next day people were telling me I had some kind glow. Little did they know." - jxka007 via Reddit

 

3 OF 9

“It feels so WARM.”

"It wasn't the first time I'd let a guy go down on me, but it was the first time I didn't freak out about it. I remember it going something like this in my head: Oh, geez. Um, is he going down? Yep, he's definitely down there. Breathe, girl. Okay, that's not so bad. Maybe another minute. Wow, it's getting better. It feels so WARM. Oh lord, that feels so good... OH, HOLY FUCKING SHIT!" - teenMom86 via Reddit 

4 OF 9

“I was convinced that I had to go pee.”

"Several times in the first few weeks when my first girlfriend and I were having sex, I felt a kind of tingling in my nether regions and was convinced that I had to go pee. I would stop her mid sexy-times and rush off to the bathroom. Finally, she stopped me one day and said that I probably didn't actually have to go to the bathroom but was actually close to having an orgasm. She was right."

 

5 OF 9

“seriously scared the hell out of me.”

"The crazy thing is that I thought I had been having orgasms for years. Sex always felt good. A friend told me it was weird I never 'flew solo.' One day, my boyfriend was out of town and out of boredom I gave it a shot (well a rub). It seriously scared the hell out of me. I remember suddenly sitting up completely freaked out. After that I became very specific in the bedroom and a firm believer that you need to figure yourself out before you can expect someone else to." - ps-iloveyou via Reddit

6 OF 9

“stronger wave of pleasure.”

"I tried to squeeze my vagina closed while my boyfriend fucked me. After a short time, I realized I was getting this ever stronger wave of pleasure which eventually hit a peak. I was 20 years old." - Anonymous via Reddit

7 OF 9

“cleaning my lower regions in the shower.”

"Was cleaning my lower regions in the shower, got this nice tickling going on. Continued it. Continued to orgasm standing in the shower for the next months." - Anonymous via Reddit

8 OF 9

“I remember the jets feeling good on my genitals.”

"I was eight years old (ish) in a jacuzzi bathtub. I remember the jets feeling good on my genitals, so I would keep it pressed against the side of the tub. The image in my mind was of a thermometer filling up, and when it hit the top I got a good feeling, which I now realize was an orgasm. I took lots of baths back then."

 

9 OF 9

“I got a vibrator and went to work.”

"I always felt dirty when I touched myself, and so one day I said screw it, and started to diddle myself. I tried and felt something, I just thought, 'This is what it feels like, damn this sucks.' Couple months later, I got a vibrator and went to work. Then my opinion changed on orgasms." - Bkbee via Reddit

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9 People Describe Their First Orgasm — oh god amazon sex toys (2)

 An orgasm can be quite a shock to the system, particularly if you didn't know your body was capable of having one. At first, orgasms can be surprising, accidental, or even scary (or a combination of those feelings). In most cases, though, orgasms are fun and leave people wanting more.

Plus, everyone has orgasms at a different point in life. Some people had an unforgettable run-in with a hot tub jet as a kid, while others had a teenage curiosity that involved stumbling upon internet porn. Many learn to orgasm through masturbation, and some go their whole sex life without orgasming at all.

Given that there's such a smattering of orgasm experiences (and the fact that there's no "right" way to figure it out), we found some real first orgasm stories from people in the R29 community and some honest Redditors. Together, these anecdotes make for quite the coming of age story, if you know what we mean.

 

1 OF 9

“sitting on a bouncy exercise ball.”

"I was 12 and my brother showed me some porn website; I think he was explaining to me what porn was. I later checked it out while alone out of curiosity. Was sitting on a bouncy exercise ball while watching a video, kind of rolling back and forwards, decided to touch my clit like in the video, came instantly. Nearly fell off exercise ball." – Anonymous via Reddit

 

 

 

 

2 OF 9

“stumbled upon just the right motion to rub my clit.”

"I spent the whole summer when I was 14 discovering porn and experimenting with masturbation. I put just about everything I could find inside me, and nothing got me anywhere. Finally, I stumbled upon just the right motion to rub my clit, and it happened. As soon as the orgasm ended, I tried to go again. I discovered orgasms and refractory periods in the same 10-minute window." - cheddarfever via Reddit

 

3 OF 9

“got this tingly feel in my pants”

"I feel like I was older than most people probably were when they first had an orgasm. My stepbrother had shown me a video of some chick with really big bouncy tits. Anyway, I got this tingly feel in my pants and decided to go to bed. Needless to say, my fingers wandered and well, it was the best feeling I'd ever had. Of course masturbating now feels nowhere near as good." - mookiexmac via Reddit

 

4 OF 9

“My body is freaking out.”

"I was 17 and I think it was my third boyfriend. We got stoned and went over to his house after school. We started making out and one thing lead to another — this was our first time fooling around with each other. He asked if he could go down on me. I said sure, not thinking of anything from previous experience. Not even two minutes in, and I'm moaning and I'm losing it, and my body is freaking out and all the sudden — bam! I was heavy breathing and trying to pull myself together." - Klanni via Reddit

“I was convinced that I had to go pee.”

"Several times in the first few weeks when my first girlfriend and I were having sex, I felt a kind of tingling in my nether regions and was convinced that I had to go pee. I would stop her mid sexy-times and rush off to the bathroom. Finally, she stopped me one day and said that I probably didn't actually have to go to the bathroom but was actually close to having an orgasm. She was right."

 

5 OF 9

“I started thinking about tampons.”

"I was 14. I'd been masturbating for a couple years already, and while it felt good, I'd never actually had an orgasm. I'd heard that some women couldn't orgasm without the help of a Amazon vibrator, and I'd resigned myself to the fact that I'd have to wait until I was 'old enough' to buy one to have my first orgasm. Then one day I was sitting in bed and I started thinking about tampons. I'd never used one and was wondering how it would feel, so I decided to try to put a finger in myself to find out. Kind of felt a little strange, but I could barely notice it. Slid another finger inside — one thing led to another and I discovered I didn't need to wait for a vibrator after all." - bettypink via Reddit

6 OF 9

“I was feeling so damn good while reading.”

"When I was around 11 years old, I remember searching up 'Ash and Misty' on Google. Reason being was because I liked the pair, and wanted some cute stories to read or pictures to see. Looked through like 20 pages worth; I stumbled upon an interesting website. Found myself something called 'lemon' which is hentai in story form. Read through a couple with so many different pairs, specifically Ash and Misty. Started to get the 'tingly feeling between my legs' and pretty much what I was reading, I tried on myself. Like 'rubbing the clit.' I had NO idea about most of the stuff, but I was feeling so damn good while reading. Was so horny and wet that I started feeling a wave of pleasure. Whoa. Afterwards, whenever I came home from school, I kept reading more to feel the same thing." - TheViolativeOne via Reddit

 

7 OF 9

“Got curious about my boyfriend's back massager.”

"Got curious about my boyfriend's back massager (Hitachi), decided to give it a try. Bam. It just happened! I was under the covers and I poked my head out literally asking, 'What the fuck!?' Now I use it every single chance I get. Literally used it like three times this morning before leaving the house." - Anonymous via Reddit

 

8 OF 9

“all the muscles in my pelvic floor started pulsating rhythmically.”

"I was in my 20s before I actually had a full-on orgasm. Had purchased my first sex toys a few months prior and was thoroughly enjoying getting to know my body. Kind of sad that it took me that long, since I started having sex at 14. I enjoyed sex and had peaks and plateaus but never realized I wasn't actually cumming until I accidentally had a real O.

 

"Anyway, one day I managed to figure out that a vibe in the vagina, a smaller one in the butt, and a bullet on my clit produced a MAJOR sensation, that just kept building until all the muscles in my pelvic floor started pulsating rhythmically and I felt tingly all over. As soon as it subsided I realized I'd been missing out for a long time.

 

"It was/is the best type I have even though I've now figured out how to have a few different kinds of Os. Clitoral, squirting, G-spot, etc." - Thr0wnAwaay via Reddit

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“I had just contextually put it together.”

"I remember one of the first times I realized what was happening: I was just laying in bed on my stomach and started to get hard. I knew what was happening, but it was still new. I began to just rub my body against my bed a bunch and then I came. It was great and probably only took me a few seconds. I was aware that I was orgasming; I assume I had just contextually put it together."

 

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Good review ≠ Good sex toys on amazon sex toys (1）

 

For the discerning vibrator user there are many, many options available online. 

Which is great, but can also make it difficult to know where to start.

Would you buy an amazon sex toy based on good reviews?

Maybe you will.

But i want to say the good review not means it will be a good amazon sex toy for you .

The sex toy market offers many variations that are designed to give different types of satisfaction.

The woman in question wrote:

So we’re going to go over the good, the bad and the ugly about this amazon sex toy

I’ll preface my review with a little background: I am a queer black woman who enjoys sucking stimulation on most parts of my body including my clit. Receiving oral has ALWAYS been an issue because when you tell them to “suck”, they think that you’re telling them to “lick and suck”. NO. Just suck. I’ve even told someone to “Suck on it like it’s a little dick” as a final resort to get pleased the way I needed to. Needless to say, that is something I suggest you never say to someone who can’t follow basic instructions properly, especially when that someone is a woman who is a lesbian and has never been nor desires to be with a man (please take my advice on that) I had pretty much given up on getting quality head and resorted to only giving. If my partner at the time got off on giving me head, you would rate me an A+ on my performance. In summary, I have NEVER came from oral. (and in case my Amazon profile is linked to any of my social media accounts, I will have to un-link them after this review because I have lied to these women by telling them that they gave me the best head I ever had in my life when in fact I was being a manipulating liar who didn’t want to hurt their poor I-cant-follow-instructions hearts)

 

The good thing about this device is that it knows how to follow directions. It’s a beautiful sleek device, no ugly words or pictures to throw your concentration off. Smooth to the touch with curves in all the right places to be able to cradle it in the palm of your hand and keep it in place. I actually had this device delivered to my job site to make sure that I received in on time and you bet your last dollar that I plugged it up AT MY DESK to make sure that by the time I got off work that it was going to be fully charged. I did have a little bit of issues attaching the magnetic charger but after I plugging the charger in first, it attached to the device without any issues (I’ll add that I had previously ordered the Womanizer 1 and the reason I returned it was due to the charger being bent thus not charging the device at all. It came with a flimsy charger that had these weird tiny prickly ends on it that insert into the device itself and I could tell that eventually those weird prongs would bend and break at some point anyway) Sped home. Got situated. Decided to give it a go sans porn to fully immerse myself into the experience. Had a little difficulty distinguishing the power button from the settings button but got the hang of it pretty quick. The first sensation I felt on the lowest setting could be compared to someone placing their lips around your clit and gently breathing on it. The 2nd setting was more concentrated sucking, very gently as if they were trying to make love to my clit. 3rd setting was more direct. By the 4th setting, I could feel the distinct sucking on my clit and the best way to describe it would be if someone was out to prove to me that they were the best head giver I was going to come across. By the 5th setting (and keep in mind, I am USE to having my clit sucked on and can only cum by that sensation) I didn’t realize that I was repeating “Oh my God. Oh my God. Oh my God…” Imagine your spot getting hit and you tell them “right there” and they ACTUALLY stay right there! Continuous and consistent pleasure is the best descriptive term for that. Unfortunately, I can’t vouch for the remaining settings (there are 11) because I never made it that far. I think I may have passed out. Or maybe I left my body for a moment and came back. Or got abducted by aliens. There is a black space in my memory shortly thereafter so I’m still not sure. Pre-Warning – to turn it off, you have to press and hold the power button. Don’t be like me, bouncing and flailing on the bed like a fish out of water because you’re cumming 4 times in a row and can’t remove the device because you’re on your way to #5 but don’t want to die from a heart attack attached to a sex toy (imagine the headline on that obituary!)

The bad thing about this device is the fact that you may have a heart attack using this device because it will blow your MIND!!!! Also, if you do not like any sucking action on your clit, this is not for you .. though I suppose you could also use it as a mini vacuum if you wanted to clean out your purse or something.

The ugly thing about this device is that after you have a heart attack, you will not have the option to defend yourself when your friends and family finds out that you died because of a $60 sex toy. What will they put on your grave marker? How many friends will suppress giggles at your funeral? I’m sure you will become the trending topic when they report that you died from complications related to extreme orgasming.Don’t say that I didn’t warn you.

A amazon sex toy will make your heart attack, what fuck?

So means it willl murder you?

I think this is a good review ,but this amazon sex toy will kill someone ,it will not be a good amazon sex toy.

I think a good amazon sex toys will bring happy and perfect sex experience.Just an amazon sex  toy can cause a heart attack, how fragile it is.

No matter how powerful a toy is, the more you use it, you will adapt to it.

So don’t rely too much on reviews. Choosing a suitable amazon sex toy is the most important thing for you.

Some funny review about amazon sex toys

 For the discerning vibrator user there are many, many options available online. 

Which is great, but can also make it difficult to know where to start.

But one woman’s review has bumped a dual purpose clitoral and g-spot to the the number one best seller position for Amazon sex toys, making it the clear and easy choice for anyone who wants their world mechanically rocked.

And if you give it a read you’ll understand why.

The woman in question wrote: 

This rose gold, silicone tipped beauty will make you feel like the Queen you were always meant to be.

You set this bad boy into position and it stays. I'm talking hands free. You can watch your porn, eat a snack, browse Netflix, knit a sweater, whatever you want.

Until 30 seconds later. When you approach orgasm numero uno. It'll be small but powerful. You'll de-clit this so fast you won't even remember what you were doing. Catch your breath. Then think to yourself "just one more won't hurt."

A minute later, numero dos.

By the time you hit number 3, your soul will seperate from your body like some Doctor Strange move.

Now you've reached, the need-an-Excorism level.

Palms sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy, weirdly craving spaghetti.

You'll become your biggest cheerleader.

"You're the freaking champion. You're going to cum. You deserve this. You freaking know you do."

"Just one more orgasm, then you're done."

*orgasms*

maniacal laughter "Girl, you know I was lyin. Go again, you bad mamma jamma."

If you've called yourself the champion at least once, you've reached the winners circle of masturbation. It's a small club. Growing by the day thanks to this suction, wave-length, science vibrator.

Another word of cautionIf you think at any point "weird, feels like I can poop right now." DE-FREAKING-CLIT. You will undoubtedly poop yourself. Also, you may passout. I maaaay be speaking from experience.

Proceed with caution.

When I read this review, I just want to say, are you writing an essay?Consumers generally don’t like write long reviews, right? This amazon sex toys review authenticity needs to be studied

The other woman in question wrote: 

Me parece una falta de respeto que no venga en paquete con un cubrecolchón o sábanas nuevas.

Fuera de eso, lo recomiendo ampliamente ¡es mi mejor amigo!.

And her pic is funny

When I see this picture, I want to have this amazon sex toy,,Makes you happy that you can't control yourself.Whether it makes me happy or not, I want to experience it.

Beginner Should Know About amazons Sex Toys

 Beginner Should Know About amazons Sex Toys

Buying your first toy is the same as buying other stuff that you know nothing about. It could be an exciting yet frustrating experience. It is true, especially if you are not sure what kind of sex toy you should look for, or what you should know about these adult entertainment devices.

 

So to help you out of the frustrations that you might be feeling, here are the things that a beginner should know when buying their first-ever amazon sex toys.

What kind of amazon sex toy suits you best?

The sex toy market offers many variations that are designed to give different types of satisfaction. Thus, before you rush and settle on the first toy you see, make sure you have checked yourself and asked what toy suits best? This question is essential since you need to consider what kind of simulation suits you for better pleasure.

 

Do you love G-spot, vaginal, clitoral, or anal stimulation? Then there are toys specified for those target areas. For instance, xinghaoya anal Vibrator respectively aim for simultaneous different，pleasure points of your body, which would surely leave you ecstatic.

 

Other than that, it is worth mentioning to beginners for sex toys that there are different power intensities and options that you could choose from. Thus, it would be best to research or ask regarding the right amount of intensity to feel enjoyment rather than pain. 

Make Sure, it’s Body Safe.

 

Ensure the sex toys you are eyeing follow the general rule, that the materials used is safe for the body. So, what are the body-safe materials that you should know? The said materials include silicone, glass, and wood. Although there are plenty of body-safe toys offered in the market, there are still many frauds out there.

 

This is why it is better to buy adult entertainment devices in a trusted brand such as Tracy’s Dog sex toys.

 

Include Your Partner When Choosing

 

Do you have someone that you want to play with the toys? It would then be best if you consider your partner, too, when choosing the right device. Since sex toys can significantly increase enjoyment and thrill to you and your partner’s sex life, you should talk to your partner before actually using it during your intimacy time.

 

Additionally, it would also be best for you to assure your partner that there is nothing wrong with them. Why? Because some people presume they are not good at sex— which is why one resorts to using sex toys.

Sex Toy Hygiene is a Must

 

This one might be obvious, but sometimes it gets overlooked. There are also other times that one only washes the device and leaves it unattended, or chucked down in a place where no one else knows but themselves. However, it is important to stress that knowing how to properly wash and take good care of your sex toy is a must.

 

Luckily for you, cleaning your sex toys is simple to do. You only need to wash your sex toys after every use with mild antibacterial soap and dry it off with a damp cloth. Also, keep in mind that most sex toys come with a travel bag or pouch to properly store the item. Thus, make sure to keep them in their packaging.

 

Lastly, silicone sex toys are prone to attracting dust, so you need to dry it with a hairdryer on the coolest setting after washing and then safely store them away.

 

Get a Good Lubricant

 

Getting a good lube is great, whether you are a newbie or a sex toy expert. Why? Well, it decreases friction, which makes your experience smoother and much more enjoyable. Although there is a stigma that using lubricants makes you a “dried up old hag,” that’s not necessarily the case, and that thinking is already canceled.

 

It is highly recommended for good lubes that you use water-based ones since it will not interfere with the sex toy’s materials. Knowing your sex toy material is another thing that you should know about since the lubricant might affect your device. For instance, it was a rule of thumb that silicone lubes breakdown silicone toys.

 

However, there are instances that silicone lubes are fine for pure silicone toys. It all boils down to making a spot test before using the lubes!