How To Make Sex Toys At Home 101: What's Safe & UnSafe

It is no secret that orgasms just feel so good every single time you have them, no matter how often you have them, it leaves you wanting for more. Our brain releases oxytocin- the happy hormone- every time you climax, which enables relaxation, thus, making it a great tool to use if you've had a really long tiring day.

If you’re someone who’s been exploring their body for a while now, you know you’ve had a moment where you stare at your hands and you just know it isn’t enough, you want more, you need more. If you’ve been feeling friskier or if you want to spice up your sex life or if you just want to feel more stimulated and satisfied while going solo, this is your cue to introduce sex toys and don’t stray for it too far, look around you, your house is basically a warehouse of sex toys.

Instead of spending a hefty amount on buying sex toys online, you can just make your sex toys at home. DIY sex toys at home are a really convenient and low cost option, especially if you’re just beginning to explore yourself sexually solo or with a partner. This also gives you a lot of space to experiment with the size, girth, length, texture and even more. As they say, variety is the spice of life, so let us help you spice it up solo or with your partner(s) with the help of this 101 article on how to make sex toys at home.

How to Make Sex Toys at Home for Boys

When you think of the question, how to make a sex toys for boys, can seem tedious or even complicated that would involve you sitting with a box of supplies, sticking things together for hours but in reality, you can learn how to make a sex toy for men at home by just finding the right things. With the help of these household items, you can help feel multiple, intense and novel sensations that help you feel sexual pleasure you've never felt before.

1) Fruits as Sex Toy

The first thought that comes to mind after hearing that fruits and vegetables could possibly be used as sex toys is that it’s probably at the top of the “DONTs” list of how to make a male sex toy. Although in reality, many sexperts and doctors actually recommend the use of vegetables and fruits over other toys at home, provided that if there is penetration involved, a condom must be used.

Orange is a great fruit for boys to practice their oral skills on. Not just oral, but they can use it to try fingering on it too as it's an excellent imitation of what it is like inside a vagina.

Fruits like watermelon, muskmelons, etc can be used for penetration. All you need to do is cut a hole in the size of your penis and put on a condom! The sensations you feel because of the textures of these fruits could lead you to a mindblowing and hot masturbating session.

If you think only women can enjoy bananas, then you haven’t tried it the right way. Take off the peel and cut the right sized hole at the tip and penetrate it. The texture is very familiar and the sensations you feel cannot be described into words.

2) Mint or Mouthwash as Male Sex Toy

If you’re trying oral sex on your partner, ice is the oldest trick in the book but it melts and the effect fades away really quickly. If you want a non-messy but lasting-for-quite-a-while trick, pop in a mint or rinse your mouth with a mouthwash...the cold breezy feeling will help you give him the best blowjob of his life. Thus, this is quite a resourceful male sex toy that can be used with your partner..

3) Electric Razor or Trimmer as Male Toy

The idea of a razor for pleasure sounds very threatening and dangerous but not if you take out the razor head and use the opposite side of the razor head along your penis as well as balls. It's electric and it vibrates! What more do we need to say to sell this idea to you? If you like the sensation that vibrations give you and razors are too scary, then you can even use an electric toothbrush or your cellphones. There are multiple apps that offer different vibrations at various speeds and patterns that you can use to stimulate your penis and balls.

4) DIY Fleshlights at Home

Fleshlights are one of the best sex toys ever for men but they come with own drawbacks. If you’re living at home with your family or parents, it can be really hard to hide a fleshlight that looks exactly like a vagina. The best part about DIY sex toys at home is that it can be a one time ‘use and throw’ sex toy, thats only meant for single time use.

Here are some DIY fleshlights you can make at home:

a) Sock Masturbator

All you need here is a sock, a hair tie, a latex glove and lots of lube. Insert the latex glove inside the sock and tie the ends to the sock with the hair tie. With the help of a good amount of lube, you have created one of the easiest and the best DIY homemade sex toy at home.

b) DIY Fleshlight

You can create a real fleshlight by doing the same with a pringles can, a tennis ball can and any other cylindrical box that seems to fit your size. If a latex glove is hard to find, you can just replace it with a large sized condom. Fill the inside with smooth sponge or insulating foam, tie the top of the can/ loose edges with the rubber ties. This can be an actual fleshlight that you can make at home and keep reusing for a while!

How to Make Homemade Sex Toys for Girls

Even if your fingers have always done a great job in satisfying you and if you already have a stash of sex toys in your drawer, your body still craves novelty and boredom leads to you searching your entire house in order to try something new.

Homemade sex toys for girls, is one of the best things to try out if you’re just started to explore yourself sexually or if your first time is approaching soon. It will help you get used to the feeling of penetration as well as help you understand what exactly helps you get to orgasmtown.

1) Vegetables as Homemade Sex Toy

The most obvious answer to how to make homemade sex toy is available all around you at this given moment is VEGETABLES! There’s definitely a reason behind why mother nature shaped them like that. Vegetables like cucumbers, carrots, zucchini, etc are excellent for penetration. However they are covered with bacteria and chemicals that could harm your vagina so don’t use them without using a condom or washing them in warm water thoroughly.

2) Hairbrush as Sex Toy

The backside of a hairbrush might just be the most used homemade sex toy ever. Be sure to use a round shaped brush and clean it thoroughly before and after every use with mild antibacterial soap and lukewarm water. Different hair brushes have different textures and shapes so don’t be shy to experiment with them all!

3) Electric toothbrush  as Female Sex Toy at Home

If you’re feeling a little extra horny someday, experiment with electric toothbrushes. Try using the electric toothbrush on your clit for vibrations and then regular toothbrush or the above mentioned homemade sex toys for penetration. You might just be able to have an explosive orgasm, quite literally.

4) Showerhead as Sex Toy at Home

This is the classic homemade sex toy for girls that you can use any time of the day. Even if you’re outside and tempted to be a little naughty, find a washroom nearby that has a showerhead or a jet spray and concentrate the pressure on your clit. You can even play around with the pressure by adjusting the intensity. You’ll feel refreshed and don't even have to worry about cleaning up.    

5) Clips/ Paper pins and Candles as DIY Sex Toys at Home

If you’re into Nipple play, paper pins or cloth clips at home could be used for giving the same effect as nipple clamps. Hot candle wax could also be used to have fun with Wax play. First, pour a small amount over your feet to see if you can handle it and then move to experimenting with it over the rest of your body. Put your safety first, and don’t push your limits while experimenting with these two toys.

5 Reasons You Must Use Sex Toys

Sex toys have been around for the longest time, there was recently a 28,000 year phallus found. If people back then weren’t so ashamed of using them, then why are we now? It’s only recently that we’ve been having conversations about sexual pleasure and sex toys.

It only makes sense to use them because they are solely created for your please. We give you the top 5 reasons why you should be introducing them in your life:

They improve your sex life

One of the most common misconceptions about sex toys is that they’re for single people or that only “lonely people” use sex toys. Bur no, they can even help boost your sex life and lenghten sex without tiring your or your partner/s out.

They increase self-confidence

Sex toys help you in exploring your body way better than anyone or anything. Regularly using sex toys could also make you sexually comfortable and more aware of your needs. You learn to appreciate your body and get comfortable with it. This has been linked to self confidence which can lead to a better sex life.  

Increase your chances at having better orgasms

Orgasms are good not just for our mental satiation but also for the maintenance of good health and immunity in our bodies. These machines are created to increase our pleasure, they are actually better at finding the most stimulating points in our bodies because they’re specifically designed for that. Most women don’t orgasm with penetration alone and need some kind of clitoral stimulation to orgasm. With the help of sex toys, women have a better chance at reaching the big O.

They help you sleep better

This activity relieves stress, relaxes your body and makes you calmer by releasing oxytocin, endorphins, etc., and these in turn help you get a good night’s sleep. If you have ever slept right after orgasming during sex or an intense masturbatory session, you know what we’re talking about.

They help in increasing your sex drive

One of the biggest myths about sex toys is that it would lower your sex drive if you use them too much. It makes absolutely no sense because machines can never replace the intimacy and sexual arousal that we feel when we are intimate with another human being. Sex toys do the opposite and studies suggest that it can improve lubrication, blood flow and elasticity in women which make sex more pleasurable, leaving them wanting for more and more.

Are Homemade Sex Toys Safe?

Homemade sex toys are completely safe, as told by doctors and medical sexperts, provided you maintain the required hygiene and use new condoms before every use.

However, there are a number of items/ objects that should go nowhere near your penis or vaginas. The pandemic made a lot of people look for objects at home that could be used as sex toys. In these moments of desperation, people resorted to using some really harmful objects or substances as alternatives.

Here’s a list of things that should go nowhere near or inside your body for sexual pleasure:

NEVER use sanitisers or any other similar chemicals as lube. Some safe lubricants at home could be Virgin Coconut Oil, Olive Oil, Aloe vera(avoid products with alcohol in them)

For people who want to experiment with electric toothbrushes, make sure to use the non-bristle side of the toothbrush. The bristle side could lead to abrasions and harm your vagina or penis.

Avoid sex toys that are made from cheap jelly and PVC. The chemicals added to make it flexible and jelly-like could harm your hormonal system and affect your reproductive system. While it isn’t easy to know the exact make up of sex toys, its safe to entirely stay away from jelly dildos and sex toys.

Any object that even goes close to your genitals should be washed properly. They shouldn’t be used without a condom and a water-based lubricant.

If you are using your cellphone for the vibrations, make sure your phone is sanitised and cleaned properly as your cellphone has a lot of bacteria on it.

While putting in anal toys or inserting toys inside the vagina, if it doesn’t have a good grip or a wide handle OR is small enough to possibly get lost inside, then you should keep it as far away as possible from your vagina and anus.

DO NOT use a vacuum cleaner as a suction toy for your clit or penis!

Mistakes You Should Not Make While Using a Sex Toy

It is very important to wash all your sex toys before using them, using mild antibacterial soap and to use condoms if you’re sharing the sex toy with your partners. Not washing them could lead to really horribly painful infections and UTIs.

When it comes to using homemade sex toys, do NOT use anything that is even mildly sharp for inserting in a vagina. It is very important to understand our limits and how sensitive it is down there for both men and women.

While the main idea behind using sex toys is to increase pleasure and orgasm, we should not get so carried away in it that could potentially hurt us.

So, Should You Make Sex Toys At Home?

ABSOLUTELY! They are cost efficient, really easy to make and give you maximum pleasure. You can make it in a matter of just a few minutes and then dispose of it immediately. As they are made from household items, there is no stress about cleaning up multiple times, hiding the toy, buying new ones every time the toy has been exhausted, etc. It is the best option for you to explore your body when you're at home, alone and in the mood to get kinky.  

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